Financial problems often becomes a source of conflict. This often led to the destruction of relationships, including marital relationship. The cause is not only because of differences in income (higher-income wives), or lifestyle of the peg than the pole. Pair lied about the use of money into a dangerous form of infidelity.
According to a survey from Harris Interactive, one of three people have been duped of their partner about money. While one in four people said that their partner has been hiding financial information from them. Financial infidelity like these that have the potential to destroy the relationship, even interfere with couples sexual adventures.
Dayana Yochim, author of The Motley Fool's Guide to Couples & Cash: How to Handle Money with Your Honey stressed financial deception couples relationship bodes ill.
"The issue is not only because of their monetary value. Problem is talking about power, autonomy, fears, hopes, personal values, and beliefs," says Yochim.
Financial deceit can not be seen as anything trivial. For large-scale example of credit card debt that exploded. Or lie to your partner, that you buy the goods preferred by 75 per cent discount when you buy it with full price. Increasingly complex financial hoax issue if in the end you could not solve it alone. Especially when it comes to the other party the aggrieved. The couple also would not want to become involved and take responsibility, if you do not want to get involved greater financial trouble again. This is where the money ultimately destructive relationship conflict.
So as not to get caught up in this unpleasant situation, you should begin to honestly and openly, how:
"If you currently are conducting financial victimization, immediately confessed. Tell me frankly and with great regret. Understand state couples who feel betrayed by it," said psychotherapist Bonnie Eaker Weil, PhD, who is also the author of Financial Infidelity: Seven Steps to Conquering the # 1 Relationship Wrecker.
Financial independence need to be addressed from the outset. Express to your partner that you need to have a financially independent life. Separate special savings account for you. You can do financial planning for yourself. For example, for pension funds, investment, or the other, with your income.
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